Author: Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC

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Treatment of Mental Disorders: Practical Skills for Clinicians

December 1, 2021December 10, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC anxiety treatment laboratory, Barbara Rothbaum, big population of Ed patient, challenge issue, Cheri Levinson, clinic, depression, director of UofL 's eat anxiety treatment laboratory, disorder, eat disorder, Ed, Ed patient, Ed symptom, evidence-based treatment, in-person treatment, Kentucky resident, Levinson, Levinson 's experiment, Maurizio Fava, mental health treatment, online webinar, photo, PTSD, resistant depression, Rothbaum, skill-based approach, symptom, team 's innovative approach, telehealth, TRD, treatment of mental disorder, UofL, UofL 's eat anxiety treatment laboratory, UofL depression center conference, UofL depression center conference address treatment, UofL depression center conference address treatment of eat disorder, UofL health depression center, VRE, webinar

LOUISVILLE The 2021 UofL Depression Center conference tackled some of the most challenging issues in mental health treatment. The online

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&FRONT Mental Wellness 

Blinded by Estrangement: Can You Love Your Child Right Out of Your Life?

December 1, 2021December 10, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC adult child, adult child 's perspective, adult-child estrangement, all-out investment, America 's middle class, American family life, Annette Lareau, aspirational ideal, awful thing, bewilder terrain, bewilder terrain of estrangement, counsel practice, cultural shift emphasize personal growth, degree of emotional closeness, denial of reality, E., emotional rollercoaster, estrangement, family estrangement, future of the American dream, giant chunk, giant chunk of grief, helpless rage, high expectation of fulfillment, image002 Say Whaaat, intensive parent, kid, major revision of the rule of American family life, middle-class crack, pain of estrangement, parent 's reaction, primary source of happiness, profound sense of betrayal, push family therapy, real vulnerability, reciprocal bond, reciprocal bond of kinship, root trace, rule of family relationship, self-compassion, self-compassion necessary, serious shift, Sharon hay, shift, sociologist, unanticipated downside, unexpected side-effect, unexpected side-effect of family estrangement, university of Virginia sociologist, unrelated economic influence, victim position, Virginia sociologist, vulnerability, wonder parent

Abuse? Neglect? It’s easy to understand why an adult child decides to have nothing to do with a parent who

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Mental Wellness 

Mom Guilt? How to Give Yourself — and Your Loved Ones — a Break.

October 1, 2021December 10, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC 9-year-old son, adult child, adult-child estrangement, approved role, archetype, birthrate, care of the kiddos, caregiving, caregiving species, caregiving system, critic attack, displacement of the husband, Dr. Rohr, estrangement, ever-changing, ever-changing rule book, evolution of a unique caregiving system, evolution of the good mother archetype, evolutionarily-inspired, evolutionarily-inspired job, evolved survival system, family system, glare omission, good mother, good mother archetype, guilt, idea of a good mother, imagined aggression, inner critic, inner critic attack, Jessica Rohr, kiddos, long developmental period, mammalian caregiving species, Manuela Maier, mind of Jessica Rohr, mom, Mom guilt, mom guilt trigger, mother archetype, pernicious feel, pre-frontal, pre-frontal cortex, prolonged developmental period, prominent mainstream, rabenmutter, rabenmutter attitude, raven mother, reason 2, reptile egg hatch, secret shame, specific mom guilt trigger, train wreck of conflict emotion, trigger, twenty-first-century mom, unique caregiving system, wine mom, world 's low birthrate

“Good moms don’t have fun without their kids around.” You might be surprised at the woman who confessed this thought

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Mental Wellness 

Empathy 101 for A-Holes: A Love Story

August 1, 2021October 18, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC 100% empathy, a-hole, a-holeness, bad can, brief moment, brief moment of connection, brief moment of utter exasperation, checklist, checklist approach appeal, client, client 's wife, cognitive empathy, counsel session, difficult relative, emotional empathy, empathic concern, empathy, empathy 101, empathy microchip, fix-it mode, genuine way, good care of the kid, good news, gridlock, Harvard business review series, inner a-hole, inner Empath, inner empathic side, let, let 's practice, let 's raise, let 's start, lucky break, moment, narcissist, natural curiosity, occasion of empathic response, operation empathy, partner 's nervous system calm, person 's perspective, personality transplant, raise heart rate, sign of emotion, strong rational mind, system calm, total narcissist, type of empathy, utter exasperation, wife 's bad mood, wife 's emotion, wife 's posture, wrong raise heart rate

“The reason I’m here is my wife is unhappy with me. I’m worried about her because I think she’s really

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Mental Wellness 

How to Get to a Breakthrough without Having a Breakdown

June 1, 2021September 9, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC afloat hold pattern, authentic human connection, autopilot mode, bad boyfriend, boyfriend, brain, brain 's need, breakdown, brief description of rain, client, comfort balm, comfort of the familiar fake, compassion, conflict aspect, conflict aspect of complex situation, counsel session, critic attack, crowd of stranger, curiosity, disorient sense, disorient sense of discomfort, emotional risk-taking, familiar fake, field of awareness, friendly curiosity, good type of guy, human programme, inner adrenaline junkie, inner critic attack, less-functional, less-functional behavior pattern, narcissistic boyfriend, neuroscientist, present moment, present-moment reward, present-moment reward of therapy, rain, reward, reward option, sensation, session, survival-inspired, therapist, therapy, too-bad-to-keep-it, too-good-to-rock-the-boat, unsettle experience, wave of sensation, window of tolerance, wonder change, young adult life

“Why do you keep going back if it’s making you feel worse?” my boyfriend asked. We were talking about one

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Mental Wellness 

Matching to a Medical Residency: When Being Smart Isn’t Enough

April 1, 2021June 16, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC 15 minute interview, big chance, big strength, business side of medicine, career success, career transition, chance, chosen specialty, comfort zone, deserve candidate, discomfort zone, dream specialty, entire corporate career, gate-keepers, good fit, high-impact essential, intelligence, interpersonal intelligence, interview skill, key gate-keepers, lackluster interview, logical-mathematical, logical-mathematical intelligence, medical residency, medical school, medical school train, medical student, medical student client, multiple intelligence, natural giftedness, newly-minted MD, out-placed, outstand academic, personal happiness, personal statement, pretty tough spot, psychology internship, residency, rigor of medical school train, skill, smarter, specialty, student client

You’d think it would be enough to be really smart, talented, hard-working, and determined. But to land a match in

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Mental Wellness 

How to Ask for Help If You’re a Perfectionist

February 1, 2021April 14, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC ability of therapy, actionable change, airline captain, B., big predictor, book coach, book therapist, book-writing, book-writing phobia, bout of profound confusion, Brett Steenbarger, brief psychotherapy, client, client-counselor, client-counselor relationship, confrontational, counsel, divorce, Dr. John Gottman, end of discussion, entrepreneurial mode, environment of hope, ever-expanding morass, exhilarate high, exhilarate high of productivity, expert Dr. John Gottman, exploration of new pattern, face-saving way, favorite face-saving way, focused change effort, good therapist, hand-on-the-doorknob, hand-on-the-doorknob comment, increased empathy, increased expertise, intensive one-on-one therapy, new pattern, old pattern of thought, one-and-done marriage therapy session, one-on-one therapy, ongoing reinforcement, perfectionist, perfectionist tendency, perfectionistic professional, period of absolute clarity, personal counsel experience, personal turn point, plenty personal, powerful emotional experience, pre-marital, pre-marital counsel, professional development, profound confusion, rehearsal of the new pattern, relationship go, science of brief psychotherapy, starter marriage, strength of the client-counselor relationship, stuckness, therapeutic alliance, therapist, therapist 's help, therapy, tortured-reasoning, tricky part, troublesome period, true perfectionist, unhappy couple, use of a supportive relationship, well-meaning adage

I’m writing a book. There, I’ve said it. So almost five years into the process, I guess it’s actually going

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The 14th Annual UofL Depression Center Conference Goes Virtual

December 1, 2020February 17, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC anxiety disorder program, Beck, Beck image003, Beck image003 photo, Boadie Dunlop, boost psychotherapy modality 's effectiveness, breakthrough therapy, CBT, clinical practice, COVID-19, current drug therapy, current psychedelic craze, depression, depression center conference, director of the mood, disorder, Dunlop, Dunlop 's presentation, Dunlop image002, Dunlop image002 photo, endure complete relief, essential component of treatment, fast lane of psychiatric drug treatment, FDA, image001 photo, importance of the set, intolerable side effect, market approval, MDMA, MDMA-assisted, MDMA-assisted therapy, medication-assisted, medication-assisted psychotherapy model, medication-assisted psychotherapy model of care, party drug ecstasy, PhD, photo, presentation, professor, psilocybin, psychedelic, psychedelic craze, psychedelic research, psychedelic trip, psychiatric disorder, psychiatric drug treatment, psychiatry, psychotherapy, psychotherapy modality 's effectiveness, rampant abuse, resilience, stand-alone treatment, therapy, treat depression, treatment-resistant, UofL, UofL depression center, UofL depression center conference, virtual event, weak experimental design, weak experimental design of psychedelic research

LOUISVILLE After weak experimental designs of psychedelics research in the 1950s, rampant abuse in the 1960s, and a global ban

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Mental Wellness 

Tired of Being Triggered? How to Keep from Losing It with People You Love.

December 1, 2020February 17, 2021 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC acceptance, alien value system, app, awareness, big chunk of time, client, co-worker, conflict avoidant, conversational ambush, current mental programme, Dr. Brewer, Dr. Brewer 's app, Dr. Brewer 's research, Dr. Judson Brewer, Dr. Judson Brewer 's family, Dr. Judson Brewer 's family of app, embodied awareness, emotion, emotion manifest, emotional family member, favorite tool, feel subversive, groundbreaking research, handy way, Kristin Neff, Kristin Neff 's impressive body, Kristin Neff 's impressive body of research, MD-UPDATE, new self-esteem, popular memes, powerful practice, rationality, relationship tension, self-compassion, self-esteem, self-judgment, simple premise, standard mindfulness phrase, stun lack, stun lack of awareness, therapist, therapy part, type of focus, up-close-and-personal, up-close-and-personal version, UT-Austin, UT-Austin professor, yoda-type, yoda-type character

Is there anyone who hasn’t been triggered by someone about something this year? Is there anyone who hasn’t felt a

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Mental Wellness 

The Argument Antidote

October 1, 2020December 1, 2020 Jan Anderson, PSYD, LPCC actual behavior, argument antidote, behavior, body language, champion of relationship, chance, counterintuitive notion, Dr. John Gottman, endless struggle, gather dust, good chance, Gottman, Gottman 's research, Hal, insufficient condition, intimate personal relationship, John Gottman, love lab, love part, major marital conflict, majority of marital conflict, marital conflict, marriage therapy, master of relationship, mental closet, mundane annoyance, northern California home, partner, partner 's commitment, partner 's willingness, perpetual category, raw footage data means, real couple, real live couple, relationship 's good, relationship process, relationship superpower, repellent, resentment, resentment repellent, science of relationship, sense of the delicate balance, Sidra, Sidra 's work, Sidra stone, sink feel, skill, solution-focused, solution-focused communication skill, solution-focused process, solution-focused skill, therapist, tone of voice, unadorned translation, week-long workshop, wonder relationship

“There’s absolutely no hope for this relationship,” I thought to myself, with a sinking feeling. It was my first time

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